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One part of this I find tricky is that, while I'm sure there are plenty of people who oppose these rules and who are lonely and unhappy in large part because of them, I would bet that a lot of the people whose mental health has deteriorated over the last couple of years support a lot of the current restrictions--it's remarkable how few people eat in the dining center these days. If that's true, it's not just an issue of the college restricting people's freedoms (though I certainly take issue with that) but also of the college nudging people toward behaviors that are likely to make them worse off--encouraging them to withdraw from various aspects of social life in the name of public health. In other words, Haverford has claimed a degree of responsibility over students' (adults') lives in the past couple of years, but not enough to generalize to other areas: at this point, one could argue that it has an obligation to push in the other direction and nudge people toward socializing, but that would be invasive and paternalistic. We're nowhere near that, of course--I'd be happy if they would just stop actively discouraging people from living socially--and I certainly think that colleges should be taking less power over students' lives, not more. That said, if I woke up tomorrow as a college administrator I would be very confused as to what my responsibilities toward students are--what obligations I would have to undo the damage done, by restrictions necessary and unnecessary.

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